Sunday, September 14, 2008

Don't Contact Your Ex Until You're Armed With These Techniques

The devastation associated with breaking up can be crippling. Not wanting to get out of bed, not eating (or overeating), crying all the time and loss of interest in just about everything are all perfectly normal responses when you have broken up with the love of your life.

However, what if I told you that it is not too late to get back with your ex. Even if the reason for the breakup was your fault and your ex doesn't want anything to do with you.......

The fact is that thousands are already having success with these techniques as demonstrated by The Magic of Making Up ebook being the top selling ebook in its category.

There is no reason the techniques will not work for you as well!

As an example of the calibre of techniques taught in The Magic of Making Up ebook what follows is an email sent by the author, T Dub, to his subscribers describing how to get an ex to return your call.


Read it and learn...

"Hi,

Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

BUT...

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WARNING!
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In the The Magic of Making Up ebook, I lay out a complete strategy.

If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy... you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.
and worse... Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces int he human mind are
*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly...

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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in The Magic of Making Up ebook BEFORE you call.

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and theycall you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!==>The Magic of Making Up

Rooting For You,
T Dub"



I wish you the best
Sharon